❤️ I am a boy who likes to dress like a girl ❤️
A year ago, I did something both terrifying and amazing: I told my partner about my cross dressing.
My heart was pounding when I told her. I didn’t know if she would still look at me the same way.
To me, it felt like the biggest risk I had ever taken.
❤️ Why does a boy wear girls clothes? ❤️
Her first reaction wasn’t explosive, but I could tell she was confused with this new piece of me.
That’s when fear took over. Instead of leaning into honesty and letting her in, I pulled back. I told myself, “Maybe if I just stop, things will be easier. Maybe I can push this part of me down and make it disappear.”
But of course, Aveline never really disappeared.
❤️ You are a Girl now you can't stop ❤️
I kept cross dressing in secret, sneaking those moments when I thought it was safe. And then the inevitable happened: my partner found out. She was angry. And in that moment, I was crushed.
I thought her anger meant my worst fears were true: this side of me was something ugly, something that would push her away. I blamed myself and felt even more ashamed, so I buried Aveline even deeper.
❤️ We are both girls ❤️
For the first time in months, I was honest. I told her how scared I was about this part of me, and how much I needed her acceptance. To my surprise, she listened and reassured me that it didn’t change how she felt about me.
That moment of honesty opened a new chapter for us. We started exploring together, supporting each other, and understanding that love isn’t about changing who we are, but accepting all parts of each other.
Cross dressing is now a joyful expression for me, not a secret to hide. And my partner? She loves this part of me, just as I am learning to love it too.
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